Showing posts with label Garrett's (particularly helpful) posts. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Garrett's (particularly helpful) posts. Show all posts

Wednesday, February 29, 2012

Some Family Pics

I thought I should put up some shots of the fam.

The boys are a delight everyday and Lara is doing so well since we moved into our house.

We had moved six times in five years; obviously it is a good idea to allow your wife an opportunity to put down roots.



Tyler and Mom




Jackson and Tyler in their "boat".


Me and the boys on Valentines Day

Friday, February 24, 2012

Ahh... it was only 3 years ago



Gents, it seems it was just yesterday we were all walking this block.

One of us still does everyday. A lot has changed for Lara and I since we came to Southern Maryland. The church is a joy to pastor and God's Word is an endless treasure trove to mine. I really do have the greatest job in the world. Preaching and discipling and caring for God's people is a delight.

The tough part of the work is when I have to call people to repentance about things they are not eager to forsake. I found in my area a tremendous amount of spiritual malnourishment. Years of no discipleship and poor exposition have made this area very weak.

Just in the small church I pastor, I've encountered so much family breakdown, essentially coming to a break down of the Imago Dei for these people. There is an outbreak of men who impregnate women and yet they are boys who don't won't to work or take responsibility.

I've seen the single women in our area fall head over heels for these types of guys. The culture has strong influence where we are and of course, as you can suspect... they think I'm the strange conservative pastor because I call them to live out the confession of their faith.

I look forward to the day I have elders who can help shepherd the load.

Spiritually myself, I have found highs and lows. The fight to kill sin wages everyday. I will say that Paul Tripp's book Instruments in the Redeemers Hands, has been a great encouragement.

If you haven't read that... do so immediately.

Over the course of the year, that book and books by Tim Keller have been incredible for helping me when I feel very alone and defeated.

Love you all,

Garrett


Thursday, March 10, 2011

A Vision for Tough and Tender Pastors in Controversy

John Piper:

It seems to me that we are always falling off the horse on one side or the other in this matter of being tough and tender—wimping out on truth when we ought to be lion-hearted, or wrangling with anger when we ought to be weeping. . . .

Oh how rare are the pastors who speak with a tender heart and have a theological backbone of steel.

I dream of such pastors. I would like to be one someday.

A pastor whose might in the truth is matched by his meekness.

Whose theological acumen is matched by his manifest contrition.

Whose heights of intellect are matched by his depths of humility.

Yes, and the other way around!

A pastor whose relational warmth is matched by his rigor of study, whose bent toward mercy is matched by the vigilance of his biblical discernment, and whose sense of humor is exceeded by the seriousness of his calling.

I dream of great defenders of true doctrine who are mainly known for the delight they have in God and the joy in God that they bring to the people of God—who enter controversy, when necessary, not because they love ideas and arguments, but because they love Christ and the church. . . .

[Acts 15:1-3] is my vision: The great debaters on their way to a life-and-death show down of doctrinal controversy, so thrilled by the mercy and power of God in the gospel, that they are spreading joy everywhere they go.

Oh how many there are today who tell us that controversy only kills joy and ruins the church; and oh how many others there are who, on their way to the controversy, feel no joy and spread no joy in the preciousness of Christ and his salvation.

-
Garrett Conner
 

Wednesday, March 9, 2011

Dever's great example to our culture

Yin-Yang Contextualization

Ed, I've been meaning to say a few things on contextualization for a couple of weeks. You're helpful post Contexualization and Consistency provides me with the opportunity. One question from your remarks: in your second to last paragraph, you pit "fitting in like an insider" against "making hard choices." Can you give some concrete examples from Paul's life of what you mean by the latter category that does not also fall into the former?

What occurs to me about contextualization is that people often think of it in terms, as you suggest, of making ourselves like the culture we're trying to reach. It attempts to build a bridge on the power of similitude.  

But watching Mark Dever for years now has taught me about a different kind of contextualization. He has a good eye for locating the particular weakness of a culture and then adopting practices that directly run against those weakness. For instance,

  • We live in an entertainment-driven culture, and so he works hard to make sure our corporate gatherings don't cater to that desire among Christians and non-Christians.
  • We live in a highly emotivisitc culture, and so he's careful not to use overly dramatic sermon illustrations that play to that desire for an emotional rush.
  • We live in a style-conscious and celebrity-driven culture, and so he dresses plainly/unremarkably, puts someone else in the pulpit around 35% of the year, and generally promoted the leadership of others.

I could keep going with the examples, but you catch my drift. He's a contextualizing "yin" to the typical contextualizing "yang." 

Now that doesn't mean he doesn't do the "yang." Clearly there's a time to build on similitude. His sermon introductions are all about meeting people "where they are at." But what I've learned watching him is that a pastor should also have a willingness to build on points of dissimilitude.

This takes humility and trust in God because building through similitude will almost always build the numbers more quickly. Building on points of dissimilitude may hurt the numbers in the short run. But you do it because it builds a firmer foundation for the long haul. You do it when you see that certain cultural preferences are in fact borderline idolatrous (e.g. entertainment, emotivism), and not finally usable for building healthy Christians and churches.

I haven't read much contextualizing literature, and perhaps the literature says all of this already. But the bottom line: my hunch is that we need a larger vision of contextualization. One needs discernment for knowing when to build with the YIN and when to build with the YANG.

 
--
Garrett Conner
 

Saturday, February 19, 2011

Husbands: Headship Means Taking the Lead in Reconciliation

Husbands: Headship Means Taking the Lead in Reconciliation

via Justin Taylor by Justin Taylor on 2/17/11

John Piper:

Leadership means we must take the lead in reconciliation.

I don't mean that wives should never say they are sorry.

But in the relation between Christ and his church, who took the initiative to make all things new?

Who left the comfort and security of his throne of justice to put mercy to work at Calvary?

Who came back to Peter first after three denials?

Who has returned to you again and again forgiving you and offering his fellowship afresh?

So husbands, your headship means: Go ahead. Take the lead. It does not matter if it is her fault. That didn't stop Christ.

Who will break the icy silence first?

Who will choke out the words, "I'm sorry, I want it to be better"?

Or: "Can we talk? I'd like things to be better."

She might beat you to it. That's okay. But woe to you if you think that, since it's her fault, she's obliged to say the first reconciling word.

Headship is not easy. It is the hardest, most humbling work in the world.

Protect your family. Strive, as much as it lies within you, to make peace before the sun goes down.

Wednesday, February 9, 2011

David Wells described me. Ouch!

For you seminary students-

When I was a seminary student I struggled immensely. I did not have the back ground at all to support me academically or intellectually. By God's grace and many tears the Lord got me through and even with success. What a blessing some of you have going to seminary post CHBC!

In speaking of the typical college experience and what kind of students he encountered at the seminary as a professor, Wells described my background specifically.

" Some how they manage to graduate students who have no mental connections with the past, little knowledge of its literature, less of its great thinkers, scant ability to think for themselves, and for whom the prospect of writing a research paper is a matter for great consternation. I looked out on that class, I guessed that at least some of theses victims of the educational system were present. Yet here they were, gamely exposing themselves to what must have seemed to them like grave peril. Their desire to be in seminary was a powerful compensation for - indeed, a counter force to - the habits and disposition they brought with them."[1]

I'm thankful for good profs who step up and help!



[1] David Wells, No Place For Truth, or, What Ever Happened to Evangelical Theology?, Eerdmands Publishing Co., 3.

Thursday, June 17, 2010

Meet Tyler

Our sweet little guy arrived a little after 6PM on Tuesday evening June 8.

What a blessing he has been and we can't but love this little face.

Tyler has been a sweet and quiet little fellow sleeping, eating, napping and of course giving us many diapers.

So far he is a good baby who keeps a good schedule.

I snapped these shots before we left the hospital.



Monday, June 14, 2010

Look out Graham TX

The fellow behind me is heading to be a senior pastor!

Hey Oh!

Thursday, April 29, 2010

Notes from -Intern Discussion today

-Caring for the poor

· Popularity in our community is a poor guidepost to how we are doing as a church. It has an over/heightened sensitivity to what the world thinks about it.

· There are substantial truths that speak to the issue of caring for the poor; however, it is not the church’s main mission to care for the poor.

· Jer. 29 is a first of a unique moment in redemptive history (i.e.- God’s kind word of revelation for how to live as a dispersed people in particular time); however it presents a particular principle of seeking the welfare of those around you by praying for and petitioning on behalf of those in that city.

· We should understand the rebuke of other nations as a rebuke of the treatment of those (humans) created in the image of God.

· We can all agree that God’s rebuke of the OT nations for what they did that was evil, still stands today.

· The careful distinction we must build in is that we cannot build our church identity on a specific target group like the poor.

· We must make clear what makes a “true” church; then, we must discern the opportunities the Lord has laid before us.

· Practically we can speak to this in our sermons as we apply this in the “public” category of the application grid.

· Those who do not see the same discontinuity we see- are not (in many ways) carrying out the fundamentals/consistency of their “Theonomist” perspectives consistently.

· Going to work as economist, or teacher, or a banker are all good things to do and should not be held in lower light than other works like “World Vision” or other relief organizations.

· We should be moved by the spiritual state of either the poor or the rich.

· Jesus context was to the poor who were considered to be forsaken by God.

· Biblical Theology is key to understanding on how these text fit into redemptive history.

· There is an over thought and emphasis on certain principles that treated as overreaction –“if you don’t treat the care of the poor with highest importance then you must not care.”

· Being grounded in your nuance of theology, will help wade the waters of rhetoric- Mark Dever

Friday, March 26, 2010

SEBTS, Lingle, Dever and Akin

Mark Dever - For Children Only - Mark 10:13-16 from Southeastern Seminary on Vimeo.

It was great seeing Mark preach at SEBTS.

One of the reasons it is great to go on these trips is because (you can tell by our expression) is that he buys us all any book we want. What a guy?

Me and Mr. Carrington celebrate our new books!

Top- Interns plus some of the staff out in front of Stealy Hall

Bottom- Danny Akin and Mark Dever discuss the 9Marks at SEBTS relationship

Look who I ran into. Mr. Handsome- Nik Lingle.

Miss this guy and I'm thankful for his friendship.